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- A Philosopher Looks at Friendship
- A Philosopher Looks at
- A Philosopher Looks at Friendship
- Copyright page
- Dedication
- Contents
- Acknowledgements
- Prelude: Eighteen Aphorisms
- 1 Three Friendships – and Lots of Questions
- 2 Philosophers of Friendship: An Apology
- 3 Why I Don’t Start with a Formal Definition of Friendship
- 4 Examples of Friendship
- 5 Beginning the Natural History of Friendship
- 6 Deepening the Natural Historical Account
- 7 Being with Others
- 8 Lewis’s Four Loves – and Nygren’s Two
- 9 Aristotle’s Three Kinds of Philia – and Aristotle’s Will
- 10 Friendship, Love, and Second-Personality
- 11 Friendship as an Unemphatic Good
- 12 Bertrand Russell and His Over-Emphatic ‘German’ Friend
- 13 Sensitivity to Tacit Knowledge
- 14 Innocence
- 15 Moralism
- 16 Roles and Spontaneity
- 17 The Benefits of Friendship
- 18 Eighteen Quick Questions and Eighteen Quick Answers
- References
- Index
7 - Being with Others
Published online by Cambridge University Press: 09 November 2024
- A Philosopher Looks at Friendship
- A Philosopher Looks at
- A Philosopher Looks at Friendship
- Copyright page
- Dedication
- Contents
- Acknowledgements
- Prelude: Eighteen Aphorisms
- 1 Three Friendships – and Lots of Questions
- 2 Philosophers of Friendship: An Apology
- 3 Why I Don’t Start with a Formal Definition of Friendship
- 4 Examples of Friendship
- 5 Beginning the Natural History of Friendship
- 6 Deepening the Natural Historical Account
- 7 Being with Others
- 8 Lewis’s Four Loves – and Nygren’s Two
- 9 Aristotle’s Three Kinds of Philia – and Aristotle’s Will
- 10 Friendship, Love, and Second-Personality
- 11 Friendship as an Unemphatic Good
- 12 Bertrand Russell and His Over-Emphatic ‘German’ Friend
- 13 Sensitivity to Tacit Knowledge
- 14 Innocence
- 15 Moralism
- 16 Roles and Spontaneity
- 17 The Benefits of Friendship
- 18 Eighteen Quick Questions and Eighteen Quick Answers
- References
- Index
Summary
Being with others is an essential part of being human. Perhaps it begins as animal compresence and only later becomes other things such as the mutual awareness of minds; however, if so, the development of those other things is very quick and very early. Perhaps they too are actually there all along.
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- A Philosopher Looks at Friendship , pp. 75 - 84Publisher: Cambridge University PressPrint publication year: 2024